These days, some churches are encouraging the youth to choose their life partners from the church. It could be a different branch but the most important thing is they married someone who believes in the same doctrine.
Proposing to a Christian girl can be difficult but it’s not an impossible feat if she is the right woman for you.
Christian women or girls are special girls who are following the footsteps of Christ. They are elegant, well-mannered and intelligent women so don’t expect it to be easy as reciting ABC.
Remember, there is no turning back if you make this lifetime commitment.
First and foremost, discuss your intentions with the head pastor of your church and pray about it for days and month before you make it public. Write a romantic note and arrange for it to be included in the Sunday morning church announcement.
While the church secretary is reading the announcement, get on one knee and pull out the ring. It’s very likely she might reject your proposal but very possible she will fall madly in love with you.
Create an album
Print all the photos of the two of you and create a hardcopy album. The purpose of this album is to inform how perfect you both look as a couple and reminisce on the moments you shared together.
On the last page, ask her to marry you with some touching words. Package it neatly with the help of your sister and let them deliver to her.
Propose in a prayer
As Christian brethren, praying together is mandatory once you meet for personal or church duties. Ask her to lead the prayers and you follow by asking for divine direction and favors. Before sharing the grace, pop the question and wait patiently for her to answer while you are both kneeling down.
Propose in a song
If you have the power to move mountains with your voice, try serenading her with a powerful gospel song which preaches about love. Create your own lyrics and propose to her before you take your seat. Unfortunately, if you can’t sing, ask the choristers or your friends to sing while you sweep her off her feet.
Plan ahead and invite her for a date in a serene place where you can freely express your emotions. Prepare her favorite dishes and make sure to take the engagement ring.
Let your mother (parents) propose on your behalf
Let’s go the traditional way, parents especially your mother can buy all the things needed for the knocking and ask for her hand in marriage. They will ask for some days before giving their final response.
Let your junior pastor indirectly pair you for church activities
Just kidding but this might actually work if you give it a try. Once you get the chance to be with during church activities, you will get the rare chance to know her and help her in times of need.
You will be the first on her list when she needs assistance with anything. You’ll get the opportunity to meet her parents and other family members who will intend like you because of your good moral and great personality.