10 Things You Must Never Tell Your Lover

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Communication is paramount in any relationship, there has to be some limits. If you must know, there are some things that spouses say to each other that end up offending one party. Now, it is absolutely important to know your spouse very well, and understand some of the things that he/she likes. Having known that, you have the assurance of engaging her in a form of communication that will only trigger fun in her.

Some of the things that tend to be offending to spouses are what that may appear as jokes. The truth is that jokes spice up relationships but only to an extent. You do not want to make her frown all day for that thing you said which you may have considered as a joke, do you?

Without further ado, here are some of the things that you must refrain from saying to your lover:

  1. My Mum is Beautiful

No one can dispute the fact that your mum is beautiful. That is given. However, in as much as the beauty of your mother is outstanding, your wife comes first. There is absolutely no sense in comparing your mother with your wife. Nature has made women to be jealous and that kind of comparison may be offending.

  1. Your butt Got Bigger

It is not only unethical to say that your wife’s butt became bigger, but also very rude. That simple phrase may mean to your wife that she has not been the best all this while since her butt was smaller.

  1. Mary Has Been Looking Good Recently

Your wife won’t help but feel really jealous once you make such sentiments. Why would you have your eyes on another lady and even notice her beauty? Why would you even share such an opinion with your wife?

  1. ‘Whatever’
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It is very rude to dismiss your wife or husband by saying ‘whatever’. It simply indicates that you do not give a damn on what your wife has to say. It is very disrespectful.

  1. Your Mom Cooks Well

Your wife’s food should and must always be the best in your mouth. Not a single time should any other woman’s food taste better than that of your wife. Not even that of your mother-in-law.

  1. I Love The Way You Snore

Isn’t that pure sarcasm? How would you love the way your husband or wife snores? It would have been better if you spared your opinion.

  1. Have You Eaten Dinner?

A wife that asks that question to a man is definitely a bomb. It is your responsibility to make sure that he eats dinner. It is not a matter of questions.

  1. Who Was Your Ex?

Why the hell would you want to remember your ex when you are in a good relationship already? It is the past yes, but you do not need to ask her/him about it.

  1. Make Me Tea

Where are your manners? At least use polite words when addressing her. It costs nothing to say please, sorry, and thank you. It is not a command remember.

    10. What’s Your Best Friend’s Name again?

Why do you even want to know? Are you interested in my friend more than myself? Such a question signifies cooking infidelity. Refrain from that totally.


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