Communication is paramount in any relationship, there has to be some limits. If you must know, there are some things that spouses say to each other that end up offending one party. Now, it is absolutely important to know your spouse very well, and understand some of the things that he/she likes. Having known that, you have the assurance of engaging her in a form of communication that will only trigger fun in her.
Some of the things that tend to be offending to spouses are what that may appear as jokes. The truth is that jokes spice up relationships but only to an extent. You do not want to make her frown all day for that thing you said which you may have considered as a joke, do you?
Without further ado, here are some of the things that you must refrain from saying to your lover:
- My Mum is Beautiful
No one can dispute the fact that your mum is beautiful. That is given. However, in as much as the beauty of your mother is outstanding, your wife comes first. There is absolutely no sense in comparing your mother with your wife. Nature has made women to be jealous and that kind of comparison may be offending.
- Your butt Got Bigger
It is not only unethical to say that your wife’s butt became bigger, but also very rude. That simple phrase may mean to your wife that she has not been the best all this while since her butt was smaller.
- Mary Has Been Looking Good Recently
Your wife won’t help but feel really jealous once you make such sentiments. Why would you have your eyes on another lady and even notice her beauty? Why would you even share such an opinion with your wife?
It is very rude to dismiss your wife or husband by saying ‘whatever’. It simply indicates that you do not give a damn on what your wife has to say. It is very disrespectful.
- Your Mom Cooks Well
Your wife’s food should and must always be the best in your mouth. Not a single time should any other woman’s food taste better than that of your wife. Not even that of your mother-in-law.